Partial Chapter from the book, ''Love Poems: Are You The One?"
Chapter 3 – The
Relationship
If you are in a
relationship, how does it feel to you?
It takes work getting to a relationship for some people at least. Relationships have their different
stages. You meet, get to know one
another, date and eventually you get into the relationship. The speed and the requirements that people
have on each other will vary from
situation to situation.
There are a few things
that comes to people’s mind when they think about a relationship. Can I trust this person? Is this going to work out? Is this person being faithful? Does this have long term potential? There isn’t a way to know these things every
step along the way. Relationships have
so many dynamics to them. Some of those
dynamics are compatibility with each other, personalities, level of connection
and a trust factor.
In my opinion, I feel that
relationships work out best when people can accept their partner as they are. One of the biggest things that I’ve seen in
relationships that don’t work is when one person tries to force change on the
other person. This leads to feelings of
being taken for granted, being controlled and an imbalance in the relationship. Either two people fit for each other or they
don’t. Don’t get me wrong, change can be
good. Especially when there are damaging
habits. However, when it starts to
become a situation to where you’re trying to force someone to change, that can
be a problem.
The key to a relationship
working out is good communication, learning to understand your partner and
accepting the fact that no situation is going to be perfect. And if those things are in place and your
partner isn’t being a negative impact on your life, then the relationship have
a lot of potential to work out. We now introducing
The Relationship.
© Copyright 2013 By
Steve Ryan
From the Book ''Love
Poems Are You The One''.
EBook & Paperback
available on Amazon
Audiobook available
on Audible
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